Eric Adams is a hero to millions. Not only is he the Borough
President of Brooklyn, NY, but he has a story to tell. He fought diabetes and
won. And he is not the only person reclaiming their health. Many people have
been fighting disease and winning by going the naturopathic way. The thought of
being on dialysis or insulin for the rest of one’s life is not appealing to
many who have chosen alternative medicine. Some choose alternative medicine by
force when their insurance carriers drop them. Many others have decided to turn
their life around by making strategic diet choices, incorporating juicing, leading
a disciplined lifestyle and getting enough sleep, water and minerals.
“It is true that by choosing a plant based diet, many
diseases can be reversed. Many people are not able to assimilate or break down
animal protein and fat as well as others. Many people are dehydrated, constipated,
have too much sugar in their blood, causing a thickening of the blood that is
unhealthy. Sodas, white sugar, white flour, alcohol, drugs, too much milk and
meat, shrimp and pork starts causing all types of problems within the body. The
liver and kidneys get overburdened and often stress throws the body off balance
and unable to fight the constant onslaught. Plants have natural antibodies to
help the body fight. Nettle, dandelion, spinach, kale, broccoli, cucumbers,
cayenne, turmeric, ginger; they all have healing powers.” Says Dr. Simone Lord,
a board certified naturopathic doctor and author.
Dr. Lord is pastor of America’s first church and wellness
center, Inspire NY located at 115-42 Sutphin Boulevard, in the heart of the
developing mecca that is Jamaica, Queens. The wellness center offers iridology,
naturopathic health consultations, massage by licensed massage therapists,
herbology, steam detox therapy, reflexology and Reiki. The church offers a caregivers’
assistance program as well as a youth ministry program with music lessons for
the youth, professional voice lessons and performing arts.
“It’s important for people to vent their emotions in a
healthy way. People hold on to bad food, bad memories, bad break ups and they
can’t seem to let go,” says Dr. Lord. “At Inspire NY, we help people to let go,
sleep better, live healthier, better quality lives by offering them a listening
ear, a good word, help with family issues, diet and lifestyle, engaging
workshops and forums, and the opportunity and encouragement to turn their lives
around for the better.”
On February 3, 2019, from 12 pm to 3 pm, the public is invited to celebrate Black History Month at Inspire NY and hear from an African-American hero, Eric Adams, who has reversed diabetes and is on a quest to help as many as he could to recover great health. Inspire NY is open each and every Sunday 12-3pm for worship, word, fellowship and to enjoy the delicious food catered from Mother Earth Juice Bar & Café. To RSVP click here or visit us at 115-42 Sutphin Boulevard, Jamaica, NY 11434. Call 917-720-2485 to embark on a new and exciting journey of recovering your health the naturopathic way!
This seems like a simple enough topic but it really isn’t. Being on the losing side is a reality for many people and it wreaks havoc emotionally, physically and spiritually into one’s life. It is possible to rebound from being a loser but it takes discipline, mental strength and a desire to win. Whereas losing is an easy slide downwards that includes giving in to temptations, giving up and staying down; winning is the challenging climb upwards that requires the use of all the cells in one’s body, the strength of one’s mind and a spirit of determination, courage, confidence and absolute faith.
People on the losing side focus on their lack, they constantly think about how they got to this low place in their life. They are often depressed and lonely because not many people want to hang out with them because of the power of their negative thoughts. They will often attract other low life beings, however, they may sometimes attract a winner, someone who is on a mission to inspire the world, someone who feels it is their destiny to help people be all they can be. The loser will then try to leech on to this person for dear life, and try to live through that person. This will eventually cause more havoc because until the loser learns to act wisely, think proactively and motivate themselves, they will constantly find themselves alone, inadequately lacking the tools to rise and stay above water.
I have intently studied the losing quality of clients and members of my family, both male and female. They have not dealt well with setbacks. Instead of jumping over setbacks or taking a detour, they tend to linger or remain immobile in the face of setbacks, constantly wondering where they went wrong and how this could have happened to them instead of ways to improve and strengthen themselves so it won’t happen again.
Losers are mostly very thin, emaciated or obese. They have lost the will to take care of their bodies so their health is often in a declining state. They often overindulge in comfort foods and junk foods such as ice cream, candy bars, soda, white rice, white sugar and they often over indulge in cigarettes, alcohol and or drugs. They do not pay attention to their health. This further weakens the brain and other organs and makes a comeback harder.
They also tend to be very dependent, weak willed and give in to fears easily. They look for someone to protect them because whatever they went through has scared them, taken away their confidence and left them defenseless. Losers often stay in that position too long instead of finding a motivational class or joining a self-help group to help them to get out of that position. In other words they cry over spilt milk much longer than the average person.
Losers do not learn from their mistakes the first time around. They often have to repeat it over and over to learn the message. This further weakens their position and makes it harder to rise from the dung. In order for a loser to rise up, he or she must first realize that they are acting like a loser. They must look around and see how much they have lost. Then they must determine to stop losing. The battleground is the mind. That is where the fears are, the hurts, the pain. In the spirit, is where there is hope, strength, determination and courage.
Losers need to let go of the baggage so they can fly. The old hurts, who did them wrong, must go out and be replaced with forgiveness. Maybe that means contacting or facing the person who did them wrong and saying I forgive you. To some it may mean apologizing. Losers often don’t like to apologize because they have a victim mentality. They like to play the part of a victim instead of a victor. For example, a man could be married and not be a provider for most of the marriage leaving most of the heavy lifting for the wife. When that wife has had enough and leaves, he assumes the victim mentality. “She left me!” “How dare she do that?” Losers have no vision, they don’t see or read the signs and act; they often wait until it is too late. They have the deer in the headlights attitude of immobility. They don’t move until they get hit and then they retreat wounded and in pain.
Losers were not born losers, they acquired it along the road of life. In order to change the losing streak into a productive and happy life, losers have to want better for themselves and their families. They have to ask the question, “Do I want my children to see me like this?” If they have no children, they could ask, “What is my gift or legacy that I would like to leave behind in this world?” or “How can I make a better life for myself?”
Losers need to immerse themselves in motivational CDs, books and self-help groups. Church is a great place to start. A local small to midsized church would be ideal, so as not to get more ‘lost’. In addition, losers need to wake up earlier and plan their day. Make each day count for something. Taking a small positive action each day, like maybe meditation will go a long way in clearing the mind of the clutter and hurts. Making a commitment to improve oneself and setting a date on that commitment helps tremendously. Letting someone or a group know about the commitment keeps the person accountable. Writing down a vision for their life is also key, along with reviewing that written vision weekly or monthly and checking the progress annually.
Nutrition plays a big role in turning one’s life around. Many people are dehydrated, which can cause high blood pressure and a slew of other illnesses. Take care of your body by drinking half your body weight in ounces of water. Also mineral deficiency is the beginning of all disease. The brain needs calcium, iron, water, magnesium… make sure you feed your brain the proper foods and vitamins needed, which you may not be getting from food. See my post Get Healthy.
Losers can become winners if they let go of the hurts, the fears and rejection and replace them with forgiveness, hope, discipline and the courage to get up, treat the wounds and then start rebuilding a life worth living.